Stories of real-life secret Santas
Altruism on the Rise? Real Secret Santas Help Strangers Across the County
Lately, I've noticed a trend in good will. Call me blindingly optimistic, but there seems to be a rise in random acts of kindness around the country. The latest: a total stranger went into a Michigan Kmart and paid layaway bills for three random customers. Her only requirements, according to Consumerist, were that the layaway orders include toys and that each beneficiary receive the following note when they checked out: "Happy Holidays from a friend".
All told, the generous donor dropped $500 on other people's tabs. When a clerk asked her why she was doing this, she said: "I just want to help people."
This reminds me of another recent pay-it-forward moment in September, when patrons at an Oregon Diner started picking up checks for other tables, creating a domino effect of kindness that lasted the entire day.
"People were just pointing to tables," a restaurant manager said at the time. "Nobody knew each other."
Again, in November, the good Samaritan movement went on the move, this time in Minnesota, when a stranger paid every rider's bus fare for the day. It was his way of repaying karma for returning his lost wallet a few days back, without a dime missing.
The following week, a man identified only as "Secret Santa", handed out $100 bills at a bus terminal in Reading, Pa. After reading that the city was the poorest in the country, he hit the most poverty-stricken areas within the community, distributing by hand an estimated $20,000. "It's time for us to step up, not step back," the mysterious donor told the local news.
At the start of December, a Des Moines woman walked into city hall to pay her water bill and walked out having paid bills belonging to 17 total strangers. Her $1,640 donation ensured several families would have running water during the cold months of winter, regardless of their employment status.
In a time of global financial instability, when unemployment is rampant, it's surprising that small acts of monetary generosity are on the rise. Aren't people more likely to be hoarding their savings more than ever? Here's a theory: Acts of no-strings-attached giving triggers positive emotions in the brain. It's called elevation psychology. Studies, most recently at Stanford University, have shown that altruistic people are generally happier, more satisfied and may even live longer. Maybe it's because of the way a simple exchange fosters community. But I think the best part about it is the reminder that money isn't just spent or saved, it's also sometimes shared. The concept exerts a little more control over the dollar: It doesn't just depend on the economic climate, but on the individual.
Another theory on the rise in secret Santas: it's contagious. Look how fast and wide it's spread this year. Have you been involved in a random act of kindness recently?
Stories of real-life secret Santas
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